Gingerbread Houses

We had a fun time making gingerbread houses with our cousins this weekend. The boys stayed interested in the activity much longer than I expected and did are really good job with the decorating! It is fun to watch the kids (all 10 of them) grow up together and enjoy their visits more and more as they get older.

Christmas tree fun

I have fond childhood memories of going to the local hardware store "Chubby & Tubby" to select a fresh Christmas tree each year. We are carrying on the tradition at our local Home Depot. Not quite as adventurous as cutting your own, but maybe simple is better at this stage of life with small kids. The boys were bubbling over with anticipation of the annual event. They were even excited to help hang the ornaments, which was a first this year. The decorating process was a little crazy, but I let them hang as much as they could without help. I hope they will will look back on these Christmas traditions as delightful memories, and most of all I hope they remember Jesus being the focus of our Christmas activities! In a few days we will start the Advent wreath readings and candle lighting.

Baby shower for little sis!

My neighbor hosted a baby shower for me today for ladies on the street and a few friends while my mom is here visiting. It was so fun to be surrounded by such special ladies. We ate some great food and enjoyed opening the little girl things! I am still not used to the idea of having a little girl in the family soon, but all this pink is making it seem much more real!

Sweet friends from nursing school.

Petit fours!

Sam

As many of my friends know, Sam has not had the easiest first 18 months of life. To make a long story somewhat short, he has always had trouble with food. He had terrible colic starting at 2 weeks old. When we introduced solid foods, it became apparent that many things restarted his colic symptoms and he developed eczema and diarrhea. He has never eaten or drank well and mealtimes consisted mainly of a lot of screaming and crying. He has been constantly irritable and a poor sleeper and had frequent infections. Between 12 and 15 months of age his weight gain had stopped to the point of his falling off the growth curve. Dealing with all of these unexplained issues began to consume our family. It was becoming hard for me to interact much with our older boys through the day because Sam's constant misery and sickness required all of my time and energy. All of us shed many tears of frusteration and discouragment over not knowing how to help him. After taking him to an allergist and dermatologist without helpful results, we took him to a pediatric GI specialist who started him on some anti-reflux medication. Meanwhile we did more research of the medical literature and started experimenting with his diet and found that his symptoms improved dramatically with elimination of certain foods. MANY foods!

Sam at Vanderbilt Children's before his procedure.

By this time we had found that he cannot tolerate any dairy, wheat, soy, eggs, peanuts, fish, white rice or beans and had eliminated them from his diet. Sam finally underwent an endoscopy at the end of October. Biopsies of his esophagus showed some significant inflammation. The GI doctor feels that these findings in the setting of his dietary restrictions and treatment for reflux suggests that Sam probably has a condition called eosinophilic esophagitis that is being partially managed by these measures. This condition is basically a reaction to foods or environmental allergens in the esophagus that can cause pain and inflammation. Unlike anaphylactic food allergies that cause an immediate reaction, this kind of allergy often has a very delayed symptom response of 36-48 hours or longer and often does not show up on traditional skin prick type allergy tests. This explains why all of his allergy tests were normal and it took us so long to figure out what foods make him sick.

Sam with his special pancakes and EO28 supplement. Its this look on his face that keeps me going!

Since changing his diet, Sam has been like a whole new child we have never known up until now! He is able to play, laugh, smile, sleep through the night and even eats! His skin rash went away and his poop is normal. Because his diet is so restricted, he drinks a special hypoallergenic supplement to help him get enough calories. Sam gained almost 2 pounds in a month after starting this supplement. It is tricky for me to maintain this special diet- most packaged foods contain at least one ingredient that will make him sick. Because he is still too little to understand why he can't eat what everyone else has, we have made some major adjustments in our family's diet and mealtime routines and provide him with as many foods that look "normal" as we can. He seems to have an uncanny ability to detect off limits foods on other people's plates, and then throw a fit that ruins the entire meal for everyone. Clearly we are working on this as much as we can and it will get better as he gets older, but its hard to stick to a tough "eat what's in front of you or go hungry" approach when your child has been sick and underweight for months. We are also getting help from a special feeding therapist at Vanderbilt to use appropriate strategies to help him develop and maintain good eating behaviors.

This means cooking two versions of everything or just cooking everything allergy free. At first every trip to the grocery store was a major anxiety provoking nightmare. This lead to the necessity of learning the special considerations of gluten, egg and dairy free baking! Thank you Jesus for allergy cooking recipe blogs! Seeing my baby eat special treats that make him happy and won't hurt him makes it all worthwhile.

There are still many unanswered questions about additional foods that Sam probably reacts to and how his disease will evolve over time. For many kids it is a lifelong condition. The main treatment is dietary managment. We are looking at taking him to Cincinnati Children's Hospital for special allergy testing called an atopy patch test, which is not available in Nashville. Managing a child's diet based on the results of this test has been shown to successfully treat eosinophilic esophagitis in 75% of kids.

I am so thankful that God has been faithful and near to us as we have walked this challenging road with our precious little boy. I am so constantly aware that there are many families dealing with problems much more scary and serious than this. We are thankful for all of our friends and family who have and continue to pray for us and Sam and support us through this discovery process.

Bible memory fun

A mom at church shared with me how she prayed over her kids every day from Ephesians 6- the armor of God. We have taken up the ritual at our house each morning at breakfast. The boys love to pretend to put on each piece of their armor and know the scripture to it quite well. When we get to the shield of faith, they always add with particular gusto, "...that extinguishes the flaming arrows of the evil one!!!" Recently the boys have also been particularly taken with the story of Samson and Delilah, and we have been discussing what the Bible teaches about being careful of wayward women who will lead a man into trouble. Now when we get to the shield part of our armor, Ben exclaims, "the shield of faith, that extinguishes the flaming arrows of the evil WOMAN!"

RIP old laptop.

My laptop has officially died, and this has really put a damper on my many legitimate and not so legitimate uses of the computer- the special food allergy recipe lookups, the photo downloads from the camera, the free homeschooling printables, researching the pressing and important questions of the day, perusing craislist and realtracs. Not surprisingly, it has also freed up a lot of my time. I strongly suspect this was a divine intervention! So, while we wait for the release of Windows 7 on October 22 to purchase the new machine with a fresh, clean install of the new version, I will just keep on realizing even more ways that I probably rely too much on the computer. And my little homeschool will only be half as great without all our little handwriting, cutting and glueing printables. But really I think we will make it :)
Culinary adventures are underfoot! I could write for several hours about the culinary adventures of the past several months driven by having a child with yet-to-be definined serious issues with tolerating foods. But lets not do that today. I just wanted to share that I just bought a leg of lamb. Lamb is supposed to be one of the best tolerated meats for people with odd food issues such as my little Sammy. SO here we go into the crockpot with the big bloody mess of meat. Should be interesting. Would consider posting photos of the finished product, (and of Sam's face when he tastes the meat) but that will have to wait for a day when I have my own hard drive to clutter up with such items. Okay then. That's all I have to say about that.

Rainy day activities

Here's what we have been up to during all these rainy days... The boys are really into having tea and cookies in the afternoons. Its a comforting treat, even when its still a bit hot outside for my Seattle blood. They are eating some delicious gluten-soy-dairy-egg free banana chocolate chip muffins. Jake is not so crazy about the alternative grain baking, but I'm determined to get them more accustomed to it. Not that I would have picked gluten free baking as a top choice for ways to use my free time and money. But it really helps little Sam, AND its pretty healthy, so lets all make the best of it!

Homemade stilts. My husband likes to give me a hard time about saving lots of empty containers, its a genetic trait passed down from my father for sure. But these here containers have provided hours of free entertainment!

The boys thought the washer and dryer would work perfectly as deep sea submersibles. They came up with this all on their own.

Last but not least, poor little Sam has been struggling with a high fever for several days. His favorite comfort has been to snuggle with Daddy for hours on end. Jake and Ben, being the compassionate big brothers that they are, had very pure intentions when they tried to help snuggle Sam too. Here is the result... I love the expression on Sam's face- it says it all!

Two wheelin'

On Tuesday, Jake decided that he was ready to take off his training wheels. Since Daddy was home, we all went outside for the big event. Mommy did the honors with the socket wrench and let Daddy get him started. It took him all of 5 seconds to take off and he hasn't looked back ever since! Meanwhile, Ben was waiting on the sidelines, having a fit because he wanted his training wheels off too. I held him off for about 3 minutes to make sure Jake didn't need any more help, then I took Ben's off. It took him all of 2 trips up the street with Daddy before he was cruising along on two wheels without much problem either! He still needs a little steadying getting started, but once he is going he is gone. I can't believe both boys ditched their training wheels on the same day. And Ben has just turned 3 years old! Now if only he will want to be a big boy enough to poop in the potty, what a milestone that will be.

Baby sister photo shoot

We had a follow up ultrasound to follow up a few things from the 20 week scan. Baby sister checks out beautifully! We are so thankful she looks healthy and is growing well. Here are a couple pictures of her from today. In this one below, it kind of looks like she is smiling!

Happy Birthday to Ben!

Ben turned 3 today! Jason and I took him out for a special date to see his baby sister on the ultrasound and then for cookies and a trip to the Dewalt store. He had a great time. Then we had a neighbor friend over for orange creme cupcakes in the afternoon. They were gluten, soy, dairy, and egg free! I wanted Sam to be able to enjoy what everyone else was having. They tasted pretty good, since at least there was still sugar in them. Ben is my easy going predictable child. Since last Christmas, Ben has been asking for a forklift almost every day. Thankfully they just got them in at Costco right before his birthday! So that was his big fun gift.

Yes! Its a forklift!

Jake's first soccer game

It was a cool August day in Tennessee, if you can imagine that. Jake's first game was a blast to watch. He did a great job listening to the coach and staying with the ball most of the time although he did not actually kick the ball himself during the game. He seemed to have a fun time playing and Ben and Sam enjoyed watching, eating their snacks, and kicking balls on the sidelines. We look forward to watching his skills develop this season and most of all just enjoy having a new fun activity to do as a family.

Baby sister on the way!

Today we all went as a family to the big 20 week ultrasound. The big boys were interested in seeing the baby on the screen for a couple minutes. The tech was able to tell right away that we are expecting a little girl! After that Jason was pretty much wrestling with the 3 squirmy boys in a dark corner of the room while trying to watch the rest of the study. We are thankful that the baby looks healthy. Now just to come up with a name...

Grandma

Have you noticed that the older people get, the more opinionated and outspoken they become? My 94 year old grandmother is a sweet, holy, Norwegian, assembly of God pastor's wife. Over the past few years she has kind of surprised us at times with comments she makes. So tonight I was talking to her on the phone and mentioned that there would be another little Pereira joining us soon. First she said, "What brought that on?" and then without waiting for a reply she added, "What are you going to do, populate that whole area?" I said, "Grandma, YOU had SIX children you know." This line of reasoning didn't phase her in the least. "What are you going to do?" she asked, as if I am the first person in the history of women to have four children. We had a very similar conversation when I told her about the third child. I just laughed.

The littlest Pereira

We can't wait to meet him or her sometime around January 9! The boys are certain that they want a little sister. We will definitely be finding out in a few weeks.

Henry

Well, for all 2 of my friends who read my much neglected blog, we have happy news to share about our dog. After a long and arduous search for a suitable home for him, it seems that he has finally arrived. A precious family saw our most recent ad on craigslist. They shared with us that that had tragically lost their beloved yellow lab in February and had been waiting for just the right dog to come along. On Saturday they came all the way from Columbia and decided to give Henry a try. The main concern was that he and their 18 year old cat would tolerate one another with reasonable civilty.

So far Henry is having the time of his life. He is a house dog with a 50 acre farm to play on and a dog friendly swimming pool next door. He has been grilling out with the family, discovering horses, chasing moles and riding in the car to dunkin donuts and the park. Apparently he is going to the groomer next week! I have never heard of taking a lab to the groomers! The family has been so kind to call and email us with frequent updates. Most importantly, it sounds like they are completely in love with Henry and are enjoying having him around. It is hard to say goodbye but we are truly thankful that he is being loved and appreciated like he deserves. No more long lonely days out in the yard for him. And the cat seems to be "allowing" this new addition to his family begrudgingly. What an answer to prayer.

Bible 101

Throughout the grind of daily life, I am always trying to weave some lessons of truth into my discussions with the boys. After reviewing the resurrection and the meaning of Easter for the 50th time, Jake said, "Jesus will come back one day and take us to heaven." then Ben immediately chimed in adding, "And we will go to Egypt."

Today as we finished reading a book called How Much God loves You, I asked the boys, "How much does God love us?" Jake replied earnestly, "Twenty dollars?"

I guess we have a ways to go here.

Cold winter days.

Another un-original idea. But so fun! Playing in the rice container. This particular time however, I had to run to the bathroom and while I was gone, they spilled a lot of rice on the floor. It wouldn't have been so bad, but they also tried to clean it up. I came out to find rice EVERYWHERE! It took me at least 30 minutes to clean up from this activity. Next time I will be sure to go the the bathroom before we bring out the rice box.

Yes, the boys are in their pajamas. It was a really cold day and we were staying at home all day, so why not? They love to stay in their pajamas.

Sam is finishing his breakfast and wanting to get in on the action.

Drink your vegetables

I know this is by no means an original idea. Recently we have been making "smoothies" with kefir, frozen fruit, and spinach. Its a great way to hide fresh, raw vegetables in a yummy treat. It also helps that the finished product looks almost exactly like the berry smoothie the boys love to get at Costco. Next I will try adding protein powder to it. They are always so hungry these days its hard to keep them full long enough to crank out the next meal.
Here's the proof- they really do love it!

Any time Jake sees the camera come out he makes faces like this. You have to fool him somehow to get a smile or anything natural looking. This is why I have very few cute pictures of him and thousands of Sam. He loves to ham it up for the camera!

Glorious 32- who knew!

I just stumbled across this. Kind of funny in light of just turning 32. They forgot to put my picture in there right next to Liv Tyler.

Happy B-day to Mommy!

My birthday fell on a Sunday this year. Since baby Sam has been sick, we decided just me and the "big boys" would go to church. We sang Happy Birthday during breakfast and the boys were all pumped for Mommy's birthday. The boys were fully oriented to the plan for the day as always. As we were getting ready to leave for church, Jake jumped up and down and said, "I LOVE birthday parties! There will be cake, and ice cream, slides, and friends there!" This was one of those times where we realize that there is a disconnect in the 3 year old mind on how the world works. How sweet that Jake thought there would be a birthday party for Mommy (including inflatable slides) at church! If only!
Note that these are indeedy the SAME party hats we used for Sam's half birthday, and several other birthdays besides that. Note to self: its always good to have some fun party hats around. The kids just LOVE them and they love a good party for just about anything at all. Making myself a birthday cake did not fit into the agenda on my birthday, we were too busy using the new! drill! on the new room. So these itty bitty (dry) Kroger cupcakes assuaged the boys desire for birthday cake anyway.

For my big 32, I am the proud owner of a new drill! It goes perfectly with my 10 inch compound miter saw. Daddy and the boys made a special trip to Lowe's to purchase the gift and brought it out just in time for us to fix up Ben's new "big boy" room upstairs!

I am also happy to share my birthday with my sweet friend Cassie's new baby daughter Lydia. When we got word that Cassie had been taken to the hospital for hemorrhaging, I cried my eyes out and kept on praying. Her birth story is amazing and I am so thankful for God's protection of her. Cassie should get all the credit for giving me the courage to do natural childbirth... she's my child birthin' homeschoolin' hero!!

Tagged by Allison!

This is the 4th picture in the 4th folder of my computer pictures.

Sam in September! He has been my most smiley and photogenic baby.

Brothers

Jake reading his Bible to Sam Reading with Grandma during her visit this week.

Fun hats from Grandma.

Jake and Ben's friendship has grown profoundly in the past 6 months. Last spring I could not keep them from fighting for more that a few minutes at a time. Now they play and play, mostly Ben following whatever big brother is doing, and sometimes doing some instigating of trouble on his own. A few times recently, things have become very quiet upstairs. Once it was because they had found some bath crayons and done some artwork on the walls. But all the other times I have found them sitting together on the floor in one of their rooms, and Jake is "reading" a book to Ben. It absolutely melts my heart! Today Jake asked if he could go get Ben up from his nap, and when I followed him upstairs a few minutes later, they were both in Ben's crib, reading a book together.

Things I want to remember about Ben at age 2.

1. He loves to clutch two armfuls of toys everywhere he goes. He can't go from point A to point B without bringing more than he can carry. This includes when he goes to bed. When we tuck him in at night, he has his soft blue elephant, his cup of water, and a number of various little cars, trains, action figures, rocks, and random household objects that he can't seem to live without right at that moment. He has been this way since he started walking.

2. Phrases Ben likes to use often:

Ben, are you okay? "I'm am."

"Can I have some nelk?" (milk)

"Can we listen to Hella-du-jah what a Savior?"

"I gah booger!" then he extends the booger on his finger for your inspection and disposal.

"Can you kiss it?" whenever he hurts something.

"Can I have it?"

"There's TWO of um!"

"I'm Brumming!" (driving a toy vehicle around)

3. When Ben sings "church songs" with Jake, it is always at full yelling volume. This is especially fun with the chorus of "I Am."

4. Ben loves tools, and he expecially loves to hammer. Any object can be used as a hammer and anything is appropriate for hammering. He can be seen and especially heard (still with arms full of toys) joyfully whacking his plastic hammer, or other repurposed toys on every surface he can get away with. He has not broken any windows yet although he did once hit our glass door with a real hammer.

5. Ben is all boy. He seems to have a natural affinity for sports and intense physical play. He seems very coordinated for his age, being able to dribble a ball with his feet by 18 months and peddle a bicycle and scooter by his second birthday. He has a natural toughness about him that always amazes me.

6. When Ben is especially happy, he likes to walk around swinging his arms and clapping his hands with each stride.

7. Ben is a cheerful, easygoing little guy. He is usually obedient and straightforward to deal with. He likes to imitate Jake and do whatever he does, which is a good thing most of the time.

This picture pretty much sums it up: two toys to "whack" with, a tractor and its trailer in hand, and of course the "measure" hooked to his pants. Oh, and I don't want to forget the drool! We go through several shirts each day. Ben is not into wearing bibs.